Is love an act of the will or of the heart? For me, love is an act of the will with all your heart. You do not consider it love when all you have is the will and without the heart. You can never say its real when you do not put your heart to it. You also do not consider it love when all you have to follow is your heart because without the will, you will surely end up broken.
Being a teenager, you experience these things. There would really come a time that you really have to ask yourself if what you feel for someone is real. Confusions start to linger on your mind whether you have to follow your heart or your mind. It is really hard especially when you are in your teenage years because all the pressure is there may it be school pressure or peer pressure. It is hard because many factors could really affect your decisions which is really very important. It is very hard like when you fall for someone who just ignore your feelings for him or her. It is hard when you have feelings for someone and unconsciously your close friend or your best friend also has feelings for him or her. These are only some of the situations that proves that love really is very confusing and problematic.
The hardest part of falling in love is the decision making. It is hard because you really have to be wise in your decisions and you must put into mind that it is really not easy to be hurt and that you might not take it. It might change you and how you deal with people. It may ruin your life. It is very difficult to cope up with things around you after you are hurt. You may experience the worst thing like being alone, lonely, and being left out and broken. It is in this times that you will really need people whom you can turn to. You will surely need friends, your family and of course God for the guidance. It is in these times that you really have to follow what you think is right for you and the people around you.
Loving a person is really risky because you really have to think whether that person really deserves your love and that will he or she return all the love you have given back to you. It isn't easy after all because although he or she can bring happiness in your life, but it is only for the meantime because not all the time you will be happy with him or her, you really have to undergo obstacles and challenges. These things are very important because you will really learn many things and these things may help you in your decisions.
So once again, love requires decision making with all of you. You really need the mind and the heart in order for you to achieve what you really want. You really have to make choices that is best for you and the people around you.
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